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		<title>By: Anshin</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-370</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 14:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there ~

Thanks so much again by the way for reading my essays. I wanted to let you know that it&#039;s probably more accurate to say that although I write them, and they could not be written without my experiences in the nightmare of the world, that I channel them.  When I sit down to write, already I start to get in my own way, I sit down to write about The Holy Spirit, about relationships, about the Ego, ect. ect....and all of a sudden I&#039;ll feel tense and blocked...what is this ? I accuse myself saying. You know about the Holy Spirit, you know about suffering, about the illusion of pain...why are you so blocked?

&quot;Ahh&quot; says a small, still voice. &quot;You&#039;re controlling again, you&#039;re working on your own power. You are not allowing the very power that led you to the spiritual awakening to to help you write. You can&#039;t be taught, you&#039;re mind is full. You sat down already knowing...in your intellectualized state, you&#039;ve blocked out yourself, the Divine Love inside you.&quot;  

What that means is that I&#039;ve asked too little of God. I&#039;ve &quot;sauntered out into the world without checking in with love first &quot; (Marianne Williamson). That is what the Holy Spirit is there for; it&#039;s there to throw open the window the eternal love inside of us, which is the constant chain of love communication between Created and Creator. Human, and Divine. 

I am being very gently urged by the Spirit write you this: In our search for clarity and understanding in any situation, our only motive must be that &quot;Our minds be healed, that We Return to Love.&quot; (A Course in Miracles). Jesus said, &quot;Bless those who act against you.&quot; He was trying to open up our communication to a Higher Integrity,the Source of Pure Love. I came to the realization when I prayed every morning that my only intention in the complexity of my life situations, that myself, and those involved be healed, may we return to love, that in the limited logic of my mind, I haven&#039;t the slightest idea how to do that. But in opening my trust to God, in giving my day, my life, every moment to the capable hand of the Creator and source of the One powerful reality, love, I am then finally co-creating  the environment of love that I and all of us seek. More petitions, blogs, websites, books, degrees, money, talk, etc. etc. won&#039;t, in and of themselves bring this about. God, the Creator of the Universe, Master of Science, Math, Anatomy and the Computer chip! Don&#039;t you think he knows how to make this tiny issue in the big spectrum of things, of whether homosexuals should or should not have a right to marry, right? 

Perfect love is the source of genius, and creativity. Plug into it, ask that the monkey of pain, frustration, hate anxiety and hopelessness on your back be removed to experience the peace, oneness, and harmony of perfect love. 

Ghandi said that &quot;Changing the world lies not in changing the world, but in the power to change ourselves. &quot;

There are so many spiritual people, but how many powerful people are there? Powerful people depend on the real source of power; love or God. When you step back and allow the power of the universe to lead, your very presents changes people. You send out blessings to to others, you automatically bless yourself. You ask the Higher Integrity of your being to show you, to help you, to lead the way, you do not lose your power; you gain it for the first time.



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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there ~</p>
<p>Thanks so much again by the way for reading my essays. I wanted to let you know that it&#8217;s probably more accurate to say that although I write them, and they could not be written without my experiences in the nightmare of the world, that I channel them.  When I sit down to write, already I start to get in my own way, I sit down to write about The Holy Spirit, about relationships, about the Ego, ect. ect&#8230;.and all of a sudden I&#8217;ll feel tense and blocked&#8230;what is this ? I accuse myself saying. You know about the Holy Spirit, you know about suffering, about the illusion of pain&#8230;why are you so blocked?</p>
<p>&#8220;Ahh&#8221; says a small, still voice. &#8220;You&#8217;re controlling again, you&#8217;re working on your own power. You are not allowing the very power that led you to the spiritual awakening to to help you write. You can&#8217;t be taught, you&#8217;re mind is full. You sat down already knowing&#8230;in your intellectualized state, you&#8217;ve blocked out yourself, the Divine Love inside you.&#8221;  </p>
<p>What that means is that I&#8217;ve asked too little of God. I&#8217;ve &#8220;sauntered out into the world without checking in with love first &#8221; (Marianne Williamson). That is what the Holy Spirit is there for; it&#8217;s there to throw open the window the eternal love inside of us, which is the constant chain of love communication between Created and Creator. Human, and Divine. </p>
<p>I am being very gently urged by the Spirit write you this: In our search for clarity and understanding in any situation, our only motive must be that &#8220;Our minds be healed, that We Return to Love.&#8221; (A Course in Miracles). Jesus said, &#8220;Bless those who act against you.&#8221; He was trying to open up our communication to a Higher Integrity,the Source of Pure Love. I came to the realization when I prayed every morning that my only intention in the complexity of my life situations, that myself, and those involved be healed, may we return to love, that in the limited logic of my mind, I haven&#8217;t the slightest idea how to do that. But in opening my trust to God, in giving my day, my life, every moment to the capable hand of the Creator and source of the One powerful reality, love, I am then finally co-creating  the environment of love that I and all of us seek. More petitions, blogs, websites, books, degrees, money, talk, etc. etc. won&#8217;t, in and of themselves bring this about. God, the Creator of the Universe, Master of Science, Math, Anatomy and the Computer chip! Don&#8217;t you think he knows how to make this tiny issue in the big spectrum of things, of whether homosexuals should or should not have a right to marry, right? </p>
<p>Perfect love is the source of genius, and creativity. Plug into it, ask that the monkey of pain, frustration, hate anxiety and hopelessness on your back be removed to experience the peace, oneness, and harmony of perfect love. </p>
<p>Ghandi said that &#8220;Changing the world lies not in changing the world, but in the power to change ourselves. &#8221;</p>
<p>There are so many spiritual people, but how many powerful people are there? Powerful people depend on the real source of power; love or God. When you step back and allow the power of the universe to lead, your very presents changes people. You send out blessings to to others, you automatically bless yourself. You ask the Higher Integrity of your being to show you, to help you, to lead the way, you do not lose your power; you gain it for the first time.</p>
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		<title>By: Anshin</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-342</link>
		<dc:creator>Anshin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 12:53:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there ~&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks so much again by the way for reading my essays. I wanted to let you know that it&#039;s probably more accurate to say that although I write them, and they could not be written without my experiences in the nightmare of the world, that I channel them.  When I sit down to write, already I start to get in my own way, I sit down to write about The Holy Spirit, about relationships, about the Ego, ect. ect....and all of a sudden I&#039;ll feel tense and blocked...what is this ? I accuse myself saying. You know about the Holy Spirit, you know about suffering, about the illusion of pain...why are you so blocked?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Ahh&quot; says a small, still voice. &quot;You&#039;re controlling again, you&#039;re working on your own power. You are not allowing the very power that led you to the spiritual awakening to to help you write. You can&#039;t be taught, you&#039;re mind is full. You sat down already knowing...in your intellectualized state, you&#039;ve blocked out yourself, the Divine Love inside you.&quot;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;What that means is that I&#039;ve asked too little of God. I&#039;ve &quot;sauntered out into the world without checking in with love first &quot; (Marianne Williamson). That is what the Holy Spirit is there for; it&#039;s there to throw open the window the eternal love inside of us, which is the constant chain of love communication between Created and Creator. Human, and Divine. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I am being very gently urged by the Spirit write you this: In our search for clarity and understanding in any situation, our only motive must be that &quot;Our minds be healed, that We Return to Love.&quot; (A Course in Miracles). Jesus said, &quot;Bless those who act against you.&quot; He was trying to open up our communication to a Higher Integrity,the Source of Pure Love. I came to the realization when I prayed every morning that my only intention in the complexity of my life situations, that myself, and those involved be healed, may we return to love, that in the limited logic of my mind, I haven&#039;t the slightest idea how to do that. But in opening my trust to God, in giving my day, my life, every moment to the capable hand of the Creator and source of the One powerful reality, love, I am then finally co-creating  the environment of love that I and all of us seek. More petitions, blogs, websites, books, degrees, money, talk, etc. etc. won&#039;t, in and of themselves bring this about. God, the Creator of the Universe, Master of Science, Math, Anatomy and the Computer chip! Don&#039;t you think he knows how to make this tiny issue in the big spectrum of things, of whether homosexuals should or should not have a right to marry, right? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Perfect love is the source of genius, and creativity. Plug into it, ask that the monkey of pain, frustration, hate anxiety and hopelessness on your back be removed to experience the peace, oneness, and harmony of perfect love. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Ghandi said that &quot;Changing the world lies not in changing the world, but in the power to change ourselves. &quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;There are so many spiritual people, but how many powerful people are there? Powerful people depend on the real source of power; love or God. When you step back and allow the power of the universe to lead, your very presents changes people. You send out blessings to to others, you automatically bless yourself. You ask the Higher Integrity of your being to show you, to help you, to lead the way, you do not lose your power; you gain it for the first time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there ~</p>
<p>Thanks so much again by the way for reading my essays. I wanted to let you know that it&#39;s probably more accurate to say that although I write them, and they could not be written without my experiences in the nightmare of the world, that I channel them.  When I sit down to write, already I start to get in my own way, I sit down to write about The Holy Spirit, about relationships, about the Ego, ect. ect&#8230;.and all of a sudden I&#39;ll feel tense and blocked&#8230;what is this ? I accuse myself saying. You know about the Holy Spirit, you know about suffering, about the illusion of pain&#8230;why are you so blocked?</p>
<p>&#8220;Ahh&#8221; says a small, still voice. &#8220;You&#39;re controlling again, you&#39;re working on your own power. You are not allowing the very power that led you to the spiritual awakening to to help you write. You can&#39;t be taught, you&#39;re mind is full. You sat down already knowing&#8230;in your intellectualized state, you&#39;ve blocked out yourself, the Divine Love inside you.&#8221;  </p>
<p>What that means is that I&#39;ve asked too little of God. I&#39;ve &#8220;sauntered out into the world without checking in with love first &#8221; (Marianne Williamson). That is what the Holy Spirit is there for; it&#39;s there to throw open the window the eternal love inside of us, which is the constant chain of love communication between Created and Creator. Human, and Divine. </p>
<p>I am being very gently urged by the Spirit write you this: In our search for clarity and understanding in any situation, our only motive must be that &#8220;Our minds be healed, that We Return to Love.&#8221; (A Course in Miracles). Jesus said, &#8220;Bless those who act against you.&#8221; He was trying to open up our communication to a Higher Integrity,the Source of Pure Love. I came to the realization when I prayed every morning that my only intention in the complexity of my life situations, that myself, and those involved be healed, may we return to love, that in the limited logic of my mind, I haven&#39;t the slightest idea how to do that. But in opening my trust to God, in giving my day, my life, every moment to the capable hand of the Creator and source of the One powerful reality, love, I am then finally co-creating  the environment of love that I and all of us seek. More petitions, blogs, websites, books, degrees, money, talk, etc. etc. won&#39;t, in and of themselves bring this about. God, the Creator of the Universe, Master of Science, Math, Anatomy and the Computer chip! Don&#39;t you think he knows how to make this tiny issue in the big spectrum of things, of whether homosexuals should or should not have a right to marry, right? </p>
<p>Perfect love is the source of genius, and creativity. Plug into it, ask that the monkey of pain, frustration, hate anxiety and hopelessness on your back be removed to experience the peace, oneness, and harmony of perfect love. </p>
<p>Ghandi said that &#8220;Changing the world lies not in changing the world, but in the power to change ourselves. &#8220;</p>
<p>There are so many spiritual people, but how many powerful people are there? Powerful people depend on the real source of power; love or God. When you step back and allow the power of the universe to lead, your very presents changes people. You send out blessings to to others, you automatically bless yourself. You ask the Higher Integrity of your being to show you, to help you, to lead the way, you do not lose your power; you gain it for the first time.</p>
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		<title>By: Marriage Save</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-315</link>
		<dc:creator>Marriage Save</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 20:27:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was present at the convention all week as a volunteer for Goodsoi</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was present at the convention all week as a volunteer for Goodsoi</p>
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		<title>By: Desi Love &#38; Relationship Forum</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-162</link>
		<dc:creator>Desi Love &#38; Relationship Forum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 06:18:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot; If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.&quot; beautiful post thanks for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8221; If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.&#8221; beautiful post thanks for sharing.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa CS</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-160</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa CS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 17:16:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I found your web site through the &lt;a href=&quot;http://eatlocaloneyear.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;eatlocaloneyear.com&lt;/a&gt;. You Rock! I love your blog. LocaVoreLisa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found your web site through the <a href="http://eatlocaloneyear.com" rel="nofollow">eatlocaloneyear.com</a>. You Rock! I love your blog. LocaVoreLisa</p>
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		<title>By: archi218</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-154</link>
		<dc:creator>archi218</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 14:33:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks!</description>
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		<title>By: fredila</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-136</link>
		<dc:creator>fredila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 18:47:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Who said that all religions had to be fair?  Many have done quite nicely over the centuries by taking advantage of those who disagree with them.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Fred</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who said that all religions had to be fair?  Many have done quite nicely over the centuries by taking advantage of those who disagree with them.</p>
<p>Fred</p>
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		<title>By: soulfulheart</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-134</link>
		<dc:creator>soulfulheart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:25:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dear Kenley, i just got back from Germany and found your blog. thanks for sharing your heart. i was shocked when i read about Proposition 8. it pushed me to think again about my position and i&#039;m grateful you share this video because it offers a very deep and new perspective, and much richer. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;i&#039;m going to share it with other folks here.&lt;br&gt;sending you much love...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Sr. Hoodie.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dear Kenley, i just got back from Germany and found your blog. thanks for sharing your heart. i was shocked when i read about Proposition 8. it pushed me to think again about my position and i&#39;m grateful you share this video because it offers a very deep and new perspective, and much richer. </p>
<p>i&#39;m going to share it with other folks here.<br />sending you much love&#8230;</p>
<p>Sr. Hoodie.</p>
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		<title>By: Kenley Neufeld</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-133</link>
		<dc:creator>Kenley Neufeld</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 11:36:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have received two comments via email that seem to indicate that fundamentalism may be the issue rather than simply calling out Christians. In fact, as one friend pointed out, fundamentalism does exist in all religious traditions, including Buddhism. My blog post is designed to highlight my feelings, my perspective, and it is clearly not the only viewpoint. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Though I see fundamentalism as a cause of concern, I don&#039;t necessarily think that over 50% of the voters in California are fundamentalists but that &quot;suspicion and fear&quot; exist in many places. My observation of the election this year indicated a concerted effort on the part of Christian churches in California advocating a yes vote on proposition 8 through the pulpit, donations, and signs on their property. I also chose to focus on this religious aspect because of my own upbringing, my own practice today, and my desire to reconcile with my roots.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have received two comments via email that seem to indicate that fundamentalism may be the issue rather than simply calling out Christians. In fact, as one friend pointed out, fundamentalism does exist in all religious traditions, including Buddhism. My blog post is designed to highlight my feelings, my perspective, and it is clearly not the only viewpoint. </p>
<p>Though I see fundamentalism as a cause of concern, I don&#39;t necessarily think that over 50% of the voters in California are fundamentalists but that &#8220;suspicion and fear&#8221; exist in many places. My observation of the election this year indicated a concerted effort on the part of Christian churches in California advocating a yes vote on proposition 8 through the pulpit, donations, and signs on their property. I also chose to focus on this religious aspect because of my own upbringing, my own practice today, and my desire to reconcile with my roots.</p>
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		<title>By: ErinL</title>
		<link>http://kenleyneufeld.com/2008/11/11/love-equal-rights-and-gay-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-132</link>
		<dc:creator>ErinL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 03:05:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, Kenley. I follow you on Twitter and saw the link to your post there. Thank you so much for putting this feeling into words. I am so happy that I live in an area (Santa Cruz) where gays face considerably less discrimination than in other parts of the country. However, the downside of growing up in this bubble is that is has always been so easy for me to write off people who don&#039;t think the same way I do about gay rights. The passage of Prop 8 was a big wake-up call---we really can&#039;t afford to dismiss &quot;those people&quot; who don&#039;t support equal rights for gays. In order to move forward, we&#039;re really going to have to conduct a &quot;hearts and minds&quot; campaign. I just don&#039;t know where to start...  -Erin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Kenley. I follow you on Twitter and saw the link to your post there. Thank you so much for putting this feeling into words. I am so happy that I live in an area (Santa Cruz) where gays face considerably less discrimination than in other parts of the country. However, the downside of growing up in this bubble is that is has always been so easy for me to write off people who don&#39;t think the same way I do about gay rights. The passage of Prop 8 was a big wake-up call&#8212;we really can&#39;t afford to dismiss &#8220;those people&#8221; who don&#39;t support equal rights for gays. In order to move forward, we&#39;re really going to have to conduct a &#8220;hearts and minds&#8221; campaign. I just don&#39;t know where to start&#8230;  -Erin</p>
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