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Entries Tagged as 'Buddhism'

Mindfulness, Technology, Education, and Parenting

September 18th, 2011 · No Comments

You might assume I was in my element at a conference dealing with mindfulness and technology – you assumed correctly! It was a blast to sit and use my iPad and iPhone during this mindfulness conference in Mountain View just a stones throw from Google. The Wisdom 2.0 Youth conference is an offshoot of the [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · Family · teaching · Technology

Happiness and Suffering are Inseparable

June 6th, 2011 · No Comments

Suffering and happiness are inseparable. We all have both and they both come and go throughout our lives – at least up to this point in my life. Our practice of Mindfulness is an effort to transform our suffering into happiness. It is an effort to move in the direction of joy. It is an [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · Dharma · teaching

Soil and Rocks. Breathing and Smiling.

April 5th, 2011 · No Comments

We’ve all been there. The endless lists, multitude of projects, work/family/volunteer seemingly colliding together. Some days we feel like the rocks and soil are simply burying us alive with the anxiety and fear. It is in times like that when breathing and smiling can really save the day, at least in the moment. Even after [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · Family · Leadership · Library

Writing an Introduction for 3k People

March 30th, 2011 · 3 Comments

How do you write a 5-minute introduction for an award winning author and scholar for ACRL 2011? To say I’m a little nervous is an understatement, though I’ve done my homework.
I’ve known for several months about this introduction, and tomorrow is the big day to introduce Raj Patel. I read his most recent book, [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · Environment · Leadership · Library

Relationships, Community, and Sexual Energy

January 3rd, 2011 · 1 Comment

I was honored to serve on the Question & Answer panel for this year’s Holiday Retreat at Deer Park Monastery with Br. Phap Hai, Sr. Mat Nghiem, Br. Phap De, Sr. Dac Nghiem, and Dharmacharya Eileen Kiera. As a Dharmacharya in training, every opportunity given to share with an audience pushes me to deepen my [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · Dharma · Family

Mixing Routine

October 14th, 2010 · 2 Comments

I’m pretty fixed in my routine – variations occur very infrequently. I like it that way because it keeps me more stable; more sane. Today was different. Normally the morning routine goes something like the following:
4:00am Alarm
4:20am Out of Bed
4:30am In the Zendo doing Yoga
4:50am In the Zendo meditating
5:30am Shower
5:50am Breakfast (650 calorie smoothie)
6:10am Ojai Coffee [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · General

Making Things Right

October 13th, 2010 · 3 Comments

This year we launched a revised web site for the library and I decided to incorporate new elements that I thought would be beneficial to students. Other library staff were challenged by one of new elements and made their case for not moving ahead. I felt strongly about the element and decided to move forward [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · Leadership · Library

Leaves, Waves, Stars

September 29th, 2010 · No Comments

Leaves, Waves, Stars
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A lovely practice song from the International Plum Village Sangha.
We are all the leaves of one tree.
We are all the stars of one sky.
We are all the leaves of one tree.
The time has come for all to live as one.
We are all the [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · music

Being Happy While Acknowledging Pain

June 22nd, 2010 · No Comments

In the first paragraph of Being Peace, Thich Nhat Hanh explains that for a practitioner, suffering is not enough:
Life is filled with suffering, but it is also filled with many wonders, like the blue sky, the sunshine, the eyes of a baby. To suffer is not enough. We must also be in touch with the [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · Family

Cultivating the Family Garden

May 11th, 2010 · No Comments

I am writing with a request; a request to reflect about friends and family in your life who may benefit more from the practice.
For the past 6-8 years, the monastery at Deer Park has offered two retreats in the summer – one for teens only (ages 13-17) and another for families. I have attended [...]

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Tags: Buddhism · Family